In High School, an acquaintance's dog died and I had the stupidity to ask why that was such a big deal. "Its just a dog," I callously remarked. That sums up how I felt about dogs. I do not consider myself a dog person so I find myself in an interesting predicament when I announce the newest member of our family: Jango, a 6-week-old Boxer. We have debated and planned for this even for 2 1/2 years but 2 events catapulted us into it's eventuality: 1) my son Grant is turning 8 and has asked for a dog for the past 4 gift giving events (birthdays and Christmas), and 2) my son Jack was bitten recently by a dog.My reasons against a dog: They shed, they're smelly, they bite and chew (things and sons), they cost $, I'd have one more soul to care for and have to make arrangements for when we're out of town, they pee & poop.. Did I mention their smell? Yep, why put myself through all that?
Reasons for a dog: Jack needed help getting over his fear of some dogs. Some dogs he will always fear and rightly so, but we really want him to have the chance to see the 'supposedly' good side of man's best friend. Our children wanted one and since I'm in the habit of giving my children whatever their little hearts desire (read sarcasm in that last part) it just fits. I believe in a healthy respect for God's creatures and children should learn to care for and have responsibility for something that has consequences of its own when neglected. And when I think about the experiences of my acquaintance with his dog and the learning process of loving, caring and eventually losing his dog, I want my family to share that experience. (This might mean that Jack or Grant will be on their missions when Jango dies).
So here we go, we're a dog family. Can't wait to see what Dogs are all about. So far, one day at a time, we are loving him. This morning after walking to the bus stop, Jango was shivering so I tucked him in with Mackay for the ride home. Both seemed happy and it made a great photo opportunity.
(side note: if all creatures are meant to 'fill the measure of their creation' are we cruel to have Jango fixed without the opportunity to become a Poppa?)
4 comments:
Congratulations! Welcome to the dog owners club! You are right they do pee, poo, smell, chew, and cause all kinds of trouble, but they give you unconditional love and laughter. Enjoy Jango's cute antics while your cleaning up that 5th puddle of the day! Jango ..... wouldn't be a Star Wars name would it?
Of course, it's a Star Wars name - Jango Fett. Just ask Darth Bice - she knows.
I "found" your blog on Molly's, and I just have to tell you that picture is priceless.
nah, go ahead and fix him before he knows what he's missing. Thats what I say. But I'm glad to see that you're enjoying your new friend. I do consider myself a dog person. I love them. I think you'll have a good time with this dog.
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